Within the context of homeschooling, I think being “one” is even more essential. Without a unity of thought and purpose, your homeschooling journey can be fraught with trouble and often treacherous.
When I am focusing on setting up our routines and planning out our year, it is wonderful to know that my husband not only knows what’s going on, but actively participates in what the children learn.
When I am doubting what should be taught and what can be glossed over, it brings peace of mind to know my husband’s thoughts. He often sees things more clearly and helps me to restructure our path.
When my children struggle with a particular subject, my husband has no problem stepping in and trying his hand.
When they fight and argue, we support each other. No one gets past one of us, without the other stepping up to take over.
In the realm of our little world, there isn’t mommy’s side and pop’s side, but our side. There are no differing answers, but one answer. Mommy doesn’t homeschool the kids, we homeschool the kids.
It is a huge comfort to know that, when I doubt myself or my plans, he has faith in me and that these are our plans we made together. It is calming to know that we support and love each other, filling in the other’s gaps.
There is no me, there is no him; there is us!