The Dilemma of Sleeping Children in Parents’ Beds

The Dilemma of Sleeping Children in Parents' BedsFor years, no matter how hard we tried, my son would not sleep through the night in his own bed. Oh, he would start the night out in his own room, but somehow in the middle of the night he always managed to sneak into the room and tuck himself in with his Pop. We tried having him sleep in his sisters’ room, we tried keeping a nightlight on, we tried any number of things. There was no substitution for Pop.

When he was little, it had been suggested that we train (read = paddle) him to stay in his own bed. Helpful friends mentioned we should lock our door. Others were adamant we let him cry it out. My guy and I didn’t care for any of those solutions, however. Sure, any number of them would have worked, but why?

While we weren’t getting as much sleep as we could and there were some nights we were wrestling with our son to stop moving around so much, it was nice to have him close. We only have our children for a short time and we appreciate the closeness they have with us. It would seem a shame to prevent them this brief moment in their lives. It won’t last forever.

While our son no longer sneaks into our room every night, on occasion I will wake to find him sleeping on the floor alongside the bed. It seems something bothered him during the night or he felt lonely and needed our company. He needed comfort and security.

I’m not sure where you’re at right now. Perhaps your littles are still in need of constant attention, and you’re about ready for them to grow out of this stage. Maybe you’re where we are with kiddos who still sneak into the room in the middle of the night. You might even be ‘done’ with these foundational years of parenting, with children grown and ready to move out. No matter where we are, may we learn to embrace each moment and rejoice in its gift. For a gift it is, indeed.

And, hey, we can sleep when they’re older, right?

“And he shall turn the heart of the fathers to the children, and the heart of the children to their fathers, lest I come and smite the earth with a curse.”
~ Malachi 4:6

Your Turn!: Do your children sneak into bed with you?

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Sleepy Time

Sleepy TimeIf there is one aspect to taking a holiday that always throws me off-balance, it is the lack of routine. While staying up late has it’s benefits, I frequently stay up into the wee hours of the night and then wake up mid-morning.

Monday we are heading back into a regular routine with home schooling and that means waking up at a decent time. This might prove to be a bit of a difficulty, but I think I have a game plan in mind.

I believe we are going to stay up late tonight (hear me out) and then wake up at a normal time tomorrow. While this might mean we are a tad sleepy during the day, it will ensure that we all get to bed at a reasonable hour and wake up on Monday ready to go.

I really love having holiday vacation, but the lack of regularity constantly leaves me feeling sleepy. It will be great to get back into the swing of things, helping my body maintain a regular pattern to life.

Time to Chime In: What helps you get back into a normal routine, after vacation is over?

Sleepy Time

Sleepy TimeIf there is one aspect to taking a holiday that always throws me off balance, it is the lack of routine. While staying up late has it’s benefits, I frequently stay up into the wee hours of the night and then wake up mid-morning.

Monday we are heading back to our regularly scheduled program with home schooling and that means waking up at a decent time. This might prove to be a bit of a difficulty, but I think I have a game plan in mind.

I believe we are going to stay up late tonight (hear me out) and then wake up at a normal time tomorrow. While this might mean we are a tad sleepy during the day, it will ensure that we all get to bed at a reasonable hour and wake up on Monday ready to go.

I really love having holiday vacation, but the lack of regularity constantly leaves me feeling sleepy. It will be great to get back into the swing of things, helping my body maintain a regular pattern to life.

What helps you get back into a normal routine, after vacation is over?