Friendly Competition

My oldest daughter loves to write, it’s just a part of who she is. In light of this, we are constantly looking for competitions for her to participate in, hoping this will help expand her repertoire and develop her writing. This week, a writing competition came to us!

Philadelphia Homeschool was kind enough to send us a link to her newest writing phbwritinglogocompetition and we thought you might all like to join in the fun. You’ll find all the rules, regulations, and essay details over on her site. Make sure to take a look and join in the fun!

Philadelphia Homeschool Writing Competition

If you do decide to join in, let us know! We’d like to keep an eye out for your entry and read your incredible story. The more the merrier!

Time to Chime In: How often do your children participate in friendly competition?

In the Kitchen: Pumpkin Latte

In the KitchenWelcome to our kitchen. Here we’ll share our favorite recipes, lament over food failures, test out new gadgets, and discover tips to making kitchen life easier. Join us on this new adventure and share your life experience with the rest of us!


Fellow mommy, don’t you think you deserve at least five minutes of relaxation and a hot cup of coffee? I do; you deserve it, you hard-working gal, you. If you’re looking to add a little spice to your morning routine, you’ve come to just the right spot! This week’s recipe… pumpkin lattes.

Every fall, I get a craving for all things pumpkin. I currently have a box of pumpkin donuts sitting in the kitchen calling my name. What could be better than a lovely cup of coffee to go with it? The best part of this recipe is that it includes actual pumpkin and not pumpkin spice, which is a personal preference.

Pumpkin Latte

2 tsp. canned pumpkin (either store-bought or homemade)
Half n’ Half
Sweetener of Choice

In a large mug, add two tbsp. of canned pumpkin and your hot coffee. Blend the pumpkin into the coffee, using a fork or small mixer, until smooth. Once the pumpkin has been incorporated, add your creamer and sweetener. Enjoy!


It’s amazing how some of the sweetest things in life are simple. This recipe takes very little time to make and yet tastes wonderful. Unlike recipes which include only pumpkin spice, this latte has a full-bodied flavor and richness. Plus, you can make it in minutes!

And now, if you’ll excuse me, I think I shall indulge in a cup myself. Along with that pumpkin donut, of course!

Time to Chime In: Do you have a favorite fall drink recipe? Share it with us!

Cindy Lou and Sammy Too Go To The Mall

“My name is Sammy and today my friend Cindy and I are going to the mall. I’m her guide dog and my job is very important. Cindy is legally blind and it’s my job to keep her safe…”

- Cindy Lou and  Sammy Too

Book-Review_logoMy kids are animal lovers. Often while we are out and about, we will see cute, furry friends and my children will want to shower them with affection. It’s taken a little time for them to realize some dogs have a job to do and we need to let them do it.

Cindy Lou and Sammy Too Go To The Mall is a charming story written by Cheryl McNeil Fisher to help young children understand that some dogs have a very important job to do. Sammy, an adorable golden retriever helps children better understand what his job is and how we are to act when he is nearby.

This story is lovingly told, filled with gentle advice on how to act around and towards guide dogs. For those unfamiliar with guide dogs, this will open the mind to the importance these dogs have in the lives of those visually impaired.


Cindy Lou and Sammy Too Go to the Mall: The Adventure of a Guide Dog Team is a wonderful special education tool for teachers and students, enjoyable for children of all ages to read and to learn about the blind community and courageous guide dogs. Above all else, this delightfully illustrated tale is a story about loyalty and friendship. As readers see the world through Sammy’s eyes, they can feel the devotion and love he has for his owner. Educational and heartwarming in equal measure, Cindy and Sammy are certainly a winning team.

This story is a very easy read, one even young children can work through quickly. The kids and I enjoyed reading this story very much and learned several new facts about these special animals.

We highly recommend this story as an addition to your library. You will enjoy getting to know Sammy and hearing his tale. These dogs are truly remarkable!

Run With It

Little Lady RunningMy kiddos dislike sitting still for great lengths of time. While I’d love to let them run around like monkeys all day, our routine does require a little bit of sit down learning. In order to keep a fine balance and make sure their patience isn’t being over taxed, mommy has learned to run with it… literally.

When our son was very little, he started an unusual routine. He would eat breakfast, get dressed, and then start pacing the house. Before we knew it, he was running from one end of the living room to the other and back again. When I would ask what he was doing, he would just say he was playing. I talked to my husband about this, a little concerned about our son’s actions. My man calmly explained that the little guy just had too much energy coursing through his system and needed more exercise.

Our son is a little older now and this principle still holds true. Every morning he feels the need to go running. We’ve decided to just make this a part of our day!

Each morning, we start our studies with Bible time and prayer. After this initial lesson, our kids are asked to run. They are to do a certain amount of running, no walking allowed, to help the blood start pumping to their brains and make sitting down easier. Usually this works for little guy and he can focus on his lessons. If not, he promptly tells me that he wants to run a little longer and we let him.

He is really great at expressing this need to us. In between subjects, should he feel the need, he will excuse himself and do a little more running. Occasionally he will let me know he is stopping to do “PE”. (laughing) He will do push ups, sit-ups, pop-ups, and more! Once he feels better, he will calmly return to the table and resume his studies.

While some might see this as a disturbance in our routine and a distraction to our other children, we’ve all learned this is what works best for him. As our son grows older, he will learn to make adjustments that better fit his growing routine and adult lifestyle. For now, we are helping him better understand his body’s needs and enjoying the fun of watching him run.

Time to Chime In: Do you take breaks in your learning day to get out the wiggles?

Razor Sharp

Pump_Day_2Welcome to “Pump Day”; your weekly encouragement to remember that, once upon a time, before you were your kids’ mommy, you were your husband’s lady.


“Shaving cream; be nice and clean. Shave everyday and you’ll always look clean…”

Benny Bell

There’s nothing like taking a hot shower to start the day off right; is there, homeschool mom? Before the hustle and bustle begins, standing under a warm stream of water just sets the mood for the day. Even better, is when I have a few extra moments to shave. I emerge from my room clean and feeling like a million bucks.

For years, I was buying over-the-counter razors. You know the kind that come in plastic packages and have triple and quadruple blades? While they might give you a clean, safe shave they are quite expensive. We continued buying these for years until one day my husband had enough.

While shopping at a local mall, we happened upon “The Art of Shaving“; a clever little store which sells straight and safety razors that look like something out of an old Sears & Roebuck catalog. While we didn’t buy anything in store, this prompted my man to start an internet search for a shaving kit of his own. As always, the man found just what he wanted.

Why bring up my husband’s shaving kit? Well, after months of watching my man use his awesome little razor, I wanted one myself! Why spend all that extra dough on plastic razors when I could be using an incredibly cool looking safety razor which costs only a couple of cents per blade? My husband being the awesome guy he is, promptly went online and found one for me!

Safety Razors

To be honest, it did take me a few tries to get used to the feel of a safety razor. Unlike those plastic deals, a safety razor only has one incredibly sharp blade. It takes a few tries to get used to holding the razor and angling it correctly to get a good shave. However, I quickly got the hang of it. While the idea of using a safety razor might scare some, they really are very easy to manipulate and can’t do any real damage. So far, I’ve only nicked myself once or twice and both times were due to my own carelessness.

Using my seriously cool razor is just another fun way to start the day off right. I feel clean and refreshed; plus, I know I’m saving my family money. What could be better?

Time to Chime In: Shaving cream or soap; which do you prefer?

As always… While fashion is fun, we should remember:

“Do not let your adorning be external—the braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewelry, or the clothing you wear— but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God’s sight is very precious.” – I Peter 3:3-4

What IS Un-Schooling?

Animal Habitats

Homeschooling comes in a variety of forms. None is as undefined as un-schooling. What does un-schooling mean and how does it differ from what the rest of us are working on?

After doing a brief search using the term ‘un-schooling’ you will quickly come across a wide spectrum of uses for this word. Some understand un-schooling to mean they simply don’t use textbooks, but there is a goal in mind for each day. Others find that un-schooling has no defined goal at all; the children are left to discover freely on their own, led only by their own desires and delights. Then, there is a world of variations between the two.

Un-schooling itself fascinates me. What were the deciding factors for families who chose this method? How do they organize their learning or do they? Do they never use workbooks or only occasionally? While I have had the pleasure of reading several blogs on WordPress who share their un-schooling world with the rest of us, I would really enjoying spending an afternoon talking with some of them to better understand this aspect of learning.

Honestly, I find the term un-schooling very confusing. Being the over-organized oddball that I am, I want everything to have a label which can easily be understood; to my way of thinking, it helps people better communicate an idea without needing a large paragraph to explain what, exactly, it means. I wonder if we need to create new terms for various methods of un-schooling? I know several parents who call it ‘delight-directed learning’. Interesting! To many, I wonder if the term ‘un-schooling’ gives the impression that no learning is done. While I am sure this is generally not true, I can see where they might get confused. Again, the term is a little vague.

As an eclectic homeschooler, we use a little bit of everything. From textbooks to hands-on to delight-directed studies, we use everything and anything to help our children better understand what they are learning and enjoy it fully. I imagine un-schoolers function in a similar fashion. I love how homeschooling doesn’t have to fit into a box. Each family is free to choose which methods work best for their children and move forward at their own pace.

Time to Chime In: Un-schoolers, we’d love to hear from you! Share with us why you chose this particular method of learning and how you organize your year. Do you think another term would better define your family’s learning style?

Stop, Look, Listen

Sand Box TimePerhaps I’m the only one, but, when I’m talking to someone, I like to make eye contact. Whenever possible, I like to look them in the face and would like to see them do the same. As a parent, I am trying to train this into our children. I want them to learn how to stop, look, and listen.

Often, when people are having a conversation, we are not really paying attention. We are hearing their words and mentally attempting to form a response which we plan to vocalize the minute the other person stops speaking. We are so anxious to participate in the conversation we aren’t paying attention to the other person at all. Do they really want a response? Is one even warranted?

One area which I definitely want to work on with my kids is open acknowledgement of other people. Sometimes our children speak to another person, but do so with their back turned or respond to an adult’s request without actually making eye contact. This bothers me. When someone is speaking to them, I want them to stop what they are doing (if this is possible) and truly look at that person. I want them to listen intently and then form a response, if one is warranted. When someone offers them something, I want them to respond with a “No, thank you.” or a “Yes, please.” while looking at the person!

How often have we spoken to someone who is staring off into the horizon? While it’s true they might be listening, it can also be frustrating. Are they really paying attention and being respectful? Especially when a response is required, looking at someone while listening and speaking is a polite gesture. Does this mean the person looking is always paying attention? (sigh) Unfortunately not; but it’s a first step.

It’s true; this isn’t a moral issue. One might even debate this is completely subjective and they would probably be right. It is a preference. However, it is my preference and therefore this is how I choose to train my kiddos.

Time to Chime In: How important is eye contact to you?

The Craft Table: Fall is Gourd-geous

Craft-Table_LogoWelcome to the Homeschool Mom’s Craft Table. Enjoy a quick foray into the world of art; join us as we delve into projects, offer helpful tips, explore new tools, and encourage all things creative. Come along and share a world of fun!


While the So Cal weather has yet to catch up with the rest of us, it is officially fall. Our front room is filled with gourds of all kinds, fall leaves, and the scent of cinnamon. What better way to spend our craft time than by experimenting on a few pumpkins?

Every year we nab a few of the choicest pumpkins we can find and carve them to our hearts content. In the past, we have followed a particular formula when carving our pumpkins:

  • Heart Eyes – We are to have love when we look at other people.
  • Cross Nose – Christ died for our sins.
  • Fish Mouth – We are to spread the gospel to the world.
  • Bible Ears – We are to fill ourselves with the Word of God, taking in His guidance daily.
  • Castle (Back side of Pumpkin)- The Kingdom of Heaven; good things to come.

Unfortunately, our pumpkins usually last only a day or two. This is really frustrating when you spend a great deal of time crafting them. This year, we are going to try a new experiment. (Science and crafting together? Yeah!) What are we doing different? We’re dipping them in bleach.

Large Pumpkins

Yes, you read that correctly; we are dipping our pumpkins in a water/bleach solution to see if this helps our creations last a little longer. This is supposed to be a fairly easy process, let’s see if this works. We are to dip our un-carved pumpkins into the bleach solution and let it sit for a few moments. Once carved, we are to once again place the pumpkin into the bleach solution and let it dry upside down. To keep our gourd looking fresh, we spray it with an anti-bacterial solution (2 tbsp. of white vinegar, 1 tsp. of lemon juice, and 1 qt. of water) every few days to keep it from going bad.

There’s nothing like a fun fall craft to usher in the season. With this handy tip on how to keep the gourds from going bad, we can enjoy this event even longer.

Time to Chime In: How many pumpkins are you carving this year?

Time’s Up!

New School BooksWhen our kids were little, we had the freedom to delve into our learning unconditionally. We could study as much or as little as we wanted. Once our children merged into the higher grades, every book I read advised grading and routines be based on a certain amount of time spent in each subject; so many hours equalled a full course of study. Decisions needed to be made. Did I really want to set my children on a course where learning had a time-table? I couldn’t imagine myself saying, “Time’s Up!”

There were many books we read to help us better prepare for junior and senior high. Most of them advised a minimum of 55 minutes per subject per day in order for the children to fully learn the subject and give enough credit to complete each course of study. While I understand the heart behind this principle (you want to ensure your child is being fully immersed in the subject and has opportunity to explore), I think this can sometimes be misleading.

Veteran homeschoolers understand that to fully intake a class, a child does not need to sit with book in hand taking copious notes and staring at diagrams for an hour each day. (Although at times this might be helpful.) No; learning comes in all forms. At times it will be on field trips, with hands-on learning, and interviewing those currently working in those fields. Sitting at a desk is merely one way our children learn.

I wonder how many new homeschooling families get confused over this issue? Do they panic at the thought of having to time their classes; stressing over whether or not they met the guidelines? I imagine that is enough to send anyone into a fit of vapors and become discouraged.

In our home, I generally do not time our learning. My children understand that we have a routine. We start with one subject and move forward until all topics for the day have been covered. Even my daughter who is in junior high is not timed during her learning day. I do not stress over whether or not she did learning for a particular length of time. Why is this? Because I understand that some learning will be done much quicker, especially if this subject is of particular interest. I also understand that some subjects take longer, depending on the day and my children’s focus.

How do we ensure our children are getting enough exposure in a given area? Through careful planning. We try to balance our book work with plenty of in-the-field training, trips, and projects to help them better understand each subject. Life is learning; with a little creativity and thoughtfulness we can easily use this to enhance our lessons.

Does this mean we never time our children? Not necessarily. There are a few areas of study which do get timed. While I don’t feel the need to time each class taken or test given, I do want our children to understand that sometimes in life this is necessary. When taking college courses, our children will be expected to complete tests in a given time period and turn in assignments on a given date. I want them to be fully prepared to enter into adulthood. So, while everything is not tested and timed, I do try to balance the two and help our children mature.

Time it not a major factor in our learning day. We study each topic to our hearts content and finish when we are done. We follow a loose routine and follow the leading of the Lord. For those new to homeschooling, I would encourage you to carefully consider how you establish your growing student’s schedule. Fifty-five minutes a day does not a course make.

Time To Chime In: What guidelines do you use to help you establish a full course for junior and senior high students? Share your thoughts with the rest of us!

Making the Grade


Here we go again… The first quarter of our year is under our belt and the second quarter is off to a running start. Once again, it’s time to do some paperwork!

Originally posted on A Homeschool Mom:

Report CardThat time of year is coming… No, I am not talking about Christmas; I am speaking of report cards. That all too important time of year when I need to fill out paperwork for each of my kiddos, explaining which grades were earned and how well each student is progressing.

While some people might scoff, my children are currently getting straight A’s. I think this is because we subscribe to the “mastery” philosophy of learning. If my children haven’t completely mastered an area of study, we do not move on until they do.

When work is finished, it is neat and complete or it is redone. When a project is turned in, it meets the standard requirements or exceeds them. When a mistake is made, we revisit it again and again until it is fully understood and they have become proficient.

Mastering a subject before moving on helps my children…

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